I understand why she was asking; she is a wonderful single woman who has been on the hunt for love. She says this time of year hits her like a blast of cold winter air. Everywhere she looks she sees couples in love, and it’s hard to watch because it’s what she wants so desperately for herself. And it’s true. This time of year is terribly romantic. It’s hand-holding season. A time for renewal, and a time for reflection. Yet, I know this time of year can be tough and lonely for so many.

But it’s not for me. I don’t feel slighted by the season. I LOVE this time of year. LOVE. I am swept away in the music, the sites, and the giving that this season brings. It’s a welcome respite from all that is going on in the world right now. And as I reflect on the past year, I am deeply grateful for good health, and my children, my family and friends. I love the home we have created, and there’s something about the colder air that makes it all more cozy and important. (The fact that my kids are on their best behavior doesn’t hurt either).

And truthfully, I absolutely love the romance of it all. Seeing couples everywhere makes me happy, not lonely. I so desperately want my friend to find the love she deserves, and there is just something about this season that makes me feel like anything can happen. I think I don’t feel lonely because the holidays are just brimming with…possibility.

I have hope. I have hope for my darling friend that her someone is out there. I have hope that the upcoming year will bring her love and new adventures.

And I have hope for me, too...because you just never know.