“ Being single for 5 yrs now has allowed me time to heal myself and a date!! Exactly what does that mean? Lol! Healing is so important in life after a relationships trust has been broken Yes! We create barriers within ourselves to be open only for rare moments. Dating is not a bad thing until your ready and yes friends and family will make funny comments but i need to be ready first and foremost and especially healed so i can love someone with all my heart mind body and soul. ”